A current soap opera dubbed in Urdu under the title
Ishq-e-Mamnoon (Forbidden Love) has really caught the interest and
imagination of a whole lot of Pakistani viewers. It suits the story that
is the flavour of the week and the talk of the world for the past few
days - the romantic liaison or a fatal attraction between an ace
American General and his attractive biographer.
The man with a
sterling career and immense brilliance, General David Petraeus, who was
serving as Director CIA, has resigned from his position after the affair
came to light and called it “an error of judgment” on his part. The
script has begun to look further unreal and has taken on one more twist
as the guy who replaced him is also being investigated for an exchange
of “potentially inappropriate” emails with another attractive woman.
Perhaps, it is these high-stress jobs that need to be defused with girl
friends. It has always been so since times immemorial. Powerful men have
had personal lives, which were taken for granted almost. It is a
downside of technology that the modern-day does not make that possible
anymore and just about everything can be intercepted and traced, leaving
no room for secrecy.
It certainly is a strange dichotomy that
while the most acceptable notion of spy movies in the West is having a
tantalising girlfriend on the side, the expected real-life behaviour in
the same context is the exact opposite. The secret web of espionage
would be so boring and entirely unmarketable if it only featured
straight-laced men, who were married and completely faithful! In real
life, on the other hand, they are expected to shun and stay away from
these temptations, or at least, not get caught.
The CIA is the
biggest undercover operation in the world and its Director has tripped
because of the very thing that keeps it ahead - new technology. This
enforced resignation and a humbling end to such an illustrious career is
tough to reconcile though. Especially for us in Pakistan, where we are
still demarcating lines between cultural practices, moral norms and
legal bindings. Director CIA’s step-down over his behaviour would be an
equivalent to our ‘honour killing’ I suppose.
The Generals are in
the news - not just in the US, but also here in Pakistan albeit for
different reasons. In America, it is for ‘romance’, but here it is for
‘renunciation’. There is a feeling building up that the military high
command is irritated beyond measure at the acceptance of a petition by
the Islamabad High Court, which is questioning the extension in service
granted to General Kayani two years ago. Stories are rife that anything
could happen in the coming days. As a lay person, my advice would be not
to take on direct confrontation with the military when elections are so
near. We have travelled choppy waters for four years and now let the
elections decide who will come into power.
The disagreements
between heads of institutions should not take on a personal hue because
the institutions they lead matter much more than they do. 2013 will not
just be the election year, it is also the year when both the Army Chief
and the Chief Justice finish their tenures and retire. One wishes that
they are both remembered well by history for taking the tough but right
decisions during the most difficult times. As the CJ and COAS do an eye
to eye sizing up of one another, it is almost like they were whispering
the following verse under their breath:
”Aziz itna hi rakho,
Kai dil behel jai,
Ab iss qadr bhi na cha ho,
Kai dum nikal jai.”
Postscript:
The country is, indeed, poorer with the loss of Iqbal Haider, an
eminent lawyer and a human rights activist. He was clear-headed,
unafraid and always ready to stand up and be counted for any cause that
he believed in. He spoke up forcefully for women’s rights and was also
the biggest voice against extremism and militancy. In a political world,
where people play all sides of the coin to keep everyone happy, Haider
never shied away from expressing his feelings about what he felt was
right. He believed passionately in Jinnah’s vision of Pakistan and
argued his case well at every opportunity. Iqbal Haider will be missed
by his friends for the wonderful company he was and by the rest of us as
one of the loudest voices for defending human rights in Pakistan.
The
month of Muharram is here. One hopes against hope that it will pass
without any incident. If the Punjab government can check and contain the
dengue virus so well, why can’t the Federal Ministry for Interior
prepare in an equally scientific manner to ensure safety of all citizens
in this month? Something somewhat more academic than just the banning
of motorbikes and mobile phones.
The writer is a public relations and event management professional based in Islamabad. Email: tallatazim@yahoo.com